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assalamualaikum!

mandy moore-crush

i've got an interesting topic in my mind lately..been wondering..why do people fall for someone else eventhough they are already in a serious relationship..is he/she changed?or is there any lacking in the relationship itself?the truth is i don't know..

based on my experience (cewahhh!) if you ever fall for someone or what we called 'crush' on someone..its ok..you need to sit down and be honest with yourself. light crushes on total strangers or usually to a good friend are okay. it's human. after all, you're dating, but you're not dead! but when the feelings start to run deeper, even if it's only on your part, the best thing you can do for everyone concerned is to sit down and try to figure out why..is there any lacking in the relationship..try to figure out the reason why..and please don't get too carried away..whether you are realize or not, u are subconsciously look for things that fill gaps emotionally..haih....bad bad thingss is it...

but yet,still feel so good.hehe

especially for long term relationship..when everything become so 'tepu' and lost things to say..

me myself been in a serious and long term relationship.gone through a hell of everything..but still,we survived..i know that it is not a perfect relationship, but i know somehow, somewhere..we are going to settle down and live happily ever after..errr...hahha!hell no!no one perfect is it.but insyaAllah...we are heading to that direction..

insyaAllah if your partner is the one for u, everything will fall into places..just need to sabarrr banyak banyak,dalam dalam,sungguh sungguh,luas luas, tinggi tinggi,kuat kuat and besar besar!!(quote from my friend's fb status) insyaAllah! :)